Hair Metal; Why It Still makes me want to get my tits out

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Sadly, I have to admit it does. About 2 seconds into the bass line of “Dr. Feelgood” buttons magically start popping off of my shirt and I want to find a pole to dance on. It must be a hormonal reaction, as these boys were the object of my misguided, uninformed, obsessive affections of my preteen years. Oh yes, dirty, drug addled, reckless hair bags-those are the things that my fantasies were made from.

Leather, spandex and hairspray-oh my. The spectrum of which was endless: if you liked em real pretty: Poison, Warrant, Bon Jovi and Cinderella would set your panties on fire. If you liked them pretty, but with a tad less lipstick: Skid Row, Winger, or Def Leopard would do. If dirty boys made your nipples twirl: Guns n’ Roses, Motley Crue, even Aerosmith could get ya there. I know none of them would like being lumped together, but that’s how they were plastered all over my walls, so therefore, they are of the same ilk to me. The uniform was fairly standard: leather or spandex pants, no shirt at all or some sort of vest type thing and black boots. Often those boots had 5 inch lifts because, unbeknownst to my 6 foot tall ass, the vast majority of them are short. Lots of bangle bracelets, clunky rings, multiple earrings and necklaces including, but not limited to: leather straps with pendants, dog collars and dog tags that dangled on their sweat laden chests. Even at the tender age of 14 all I could think about was running my tongue from their lips to their navels. But the fantasies stopped there as penises were still an enigma to me at that point.

Of course there is also the music. I defy you to listen to any of it and not flip your hair around like a stripper and move your hips like a swaying pendulum coaxing a hypnotic state. It was all so sexual. Some of the sexual innuendos were more blatant than others, but most of them were pretty hot. A lot of times you couldn’t tell what the fuck they were singing about, but the full on moaning dubbed onto the track was a dead give away to little ol me! It was brilliant. I look at Justin Bieber, 1 Direction and the shit that girls go bonkers for today and I know Sammy Hagar would’ve done wheelies over their faces with his “Bad Motor Scooter”. They haven’t even hit puberty yet. It’s vile. Who wants to see hairless boys dancing and singing? I like my boys a bit more depraved and playing fucking instruments for the love of God. Beating on their drum kits, ripping on low hanging guitars. That is sexy. Popping and locking? Freakish. Interesting, maybe? But, hot? Negatory.

Of course I had no idea at the time just how fucked up these boys actually were: smacked out junkies, unshowered for weeks at a time, drinking tetra fish bowl cleaner to combat venereal diseases. Yes, that shit actually happened. But ignorance is bliss, and I was in a constant state of bliss. To this day when I smell Poison perfume I am instantly transported to my 13 year old bedroom that was covered in band posters and blared 80′s “Metal” until my mother made me shut it off.

Although it was many years ago, and most of these boys are men in their 50′s and 60′s now, I still get the warm fuzzies when I see them in concert or embarrassing themselves on reality TV. I’m still rooting for them to do well and I am ever grateful for the for the good times we had together. Even if it was only in my twisted, precocious little head.

 

 

 

About Wine Scrag

I was born a share croppers daughter.... Nope that was George Jefferson. Well son, whatever. I am married and have 2 amazing girls, 5 and 3 years old. I have a bachelors degree in Psychology from a private woman's university. I learned endurance, stamina, how to love and be loved while I studied there, but I figured out that I was capable of anything afterword. I spent 3 years backpacking through Europe and East Africa and then relocated to San Francisco's Bay area. Being a part of the food and wine culture there ignited my passion. Now back on the East Coast, I am a stay at home Mom, Certified Sommelier, Blogger and all around fruitcake!

  • Cindy Bin

    AAARGGGHHHH! I can’t believe this! Now you are using the t-word for breasts?? What is WRONG with you?? And again, you are a MOTHER?? I just read your article about American Girl dolls where you used the f-word–I had to stop reading, I was so upset. And then I check out your profile to see who are you are, and you use the t-word?? In the TITLE of your article?? HOW CRUDE AND UNLADYLIKE! Oh this just makes me furious! And then your profile says you were part of the “food and wine culture.” Again, I have ranted against alcohol for ten years online! Alcohol is a DRUG. Just because it’s legal doesn’t make it right. We will never get the pot smokers to understand why it’s wrong and immature to use drugs, as long as grown adults think nothing of using a mind-altering drug in the form of alcohol!! People need to grow up and set an example and not use mind altering drugs. Oh this just makes me so mad. Here I was doing a search for American Girl dolls online, came across your article, see that you used the f-word in it, and then I see that you use the t-word in the title of this article, and that you use alcohol!! I just can’t believe it! All because I was searching for info about nice, innocent dolls!! I wish I had never seen this blog, it makes me so depressed to think there are women like you out there. How does your husband feel about you using such crude, unladylike language and using alcohol??

    • Winescrag

      He loves when I get loaded and talk dirty to him. And I agree, this blog is DEFINATELY not for you. Don’t worry, there are plenty of vanilla ladies out there for you to commiserate with.