I love to play with myself. Call it what you want; diddling, flicking the bean, tickling the kitty, onanism, buffing the bead, doodling the noodle, masturbation, or my fave, paddling the pink canoe. It is all fun. And there is nothing wrong with it, even if you think there is, it can be your own dirty little (fun) secret. Hell, you were probably the first person to get you off!
Masturbation has so many advantages. When it is just you, there is no worry of having to get the partner off and all the mess/post clean up required. You can roll over and go to sleep (with a smile on your face). If you have trouble sleeping, a quick orgasm is the best path to relaxation, so much better than drugs. A good orgasm helps relieve period cramps. Particularly crabby & pissed off today? Do everyone a favor and go fuck yourself (literally) and enjoy the release of endorphins. Oh, and guess what? Use it or lose it- the more you orgasm, the more you want to, so it’s also good for your libido. And not to mention, it is the safest sex to be had.
Masturbating teaches you about yourself and your responses. I didn’t have vaginal orgasms until very recently-and only when I am playing with myself. It gives me hope that one day I’ll get to come with my man just pounding away without clitoral stimulation. When you know what works for you, you can communicate what works to your partner. And speaking of your partner, give them a treat and put on a show. You’ll be amazed at how hot it is to have someone watch. Or listen-call them at work right before you come and let them hear you. Trust me, you will be on their mind the rest of the day.
I love my toys. I have many. My rabbit is for when I have a “date night” with myself. Taking my time, teasing myself and letting it build before crashing over the edge. I have a regular “facial massager” type seen in the back of magazines and in novelty catalogs. This is a nice portable toy, good for a quickie to help me off to sleep. There is the G-spot toy, fun for exploration and discovery. The good old Oster massager with attachments you can pick up at CVS is always a great standby, with the advantage of never having to worry about batteries dying. I even have a vibrator that looks like a lipstick tucked into my purse, handy when they toy box is at home, but I’m not. The hand held shower massage is the tops! Not only do your parts get squeaky clean, you get to have some fun-talk about parallel processing! In a pinch, I always have my ten digits to lend a “hand” (pun intended).
Now, my spank bank is always full. I may meet someone I find particularly sexy and file them away for later use. I have some good stand by fantasies that always work for me. And, I love porn! My taste may run a bit on the extreme side for some, but there are some perfectly lovely vignettes filed under the category of “Female Friendly”. Porn sites are finally wising up that women are horny and have money. Personally, I like YouPorn. Short & sweet clips to help you on your journey, for free!
So lay back, relax and take your time. Be wanton. Explore, insert, rub. Get close, then stop. See how many times you can do that, then hang on for the biggest “O” you’ve ever had. It’s yours, play with what Mother Nature gave you. After all, our arms would be much shorter if we weren’t supposed to touch it.